Tragedy can strike at any time in a person’s life, even before they join us on earth.

For hip-hop icon Remy Ma and her husband, rap star Papoose, they recently experienced what it’s like to lose a child and it’s a tough pillow to swallow, to say the least.

During a new episode of Love & Hip-Hop NY, footage aired of Remy and Papoose discussing this tough tragedy and how it’s unfortunate it had to happen to them. Remy also spoke on the situation via her IG and it’s hard to not feel terrible.

Let this be a lesson to all of us to cherish the things we love on a daily basis. Our thoughts go out to Remy and Pap.