Jennifer Lopez on the cover of any magazine can certainly do no wrong. The iconic singer can still rock a plunging leotard to shame us all back into the gym. The pop star shows off her amazing bod as the cover star of Complex’s February/March issue.

While we ogle at the seeming unchanged J.Lo, the American Idol judge is certainly an older, mature and wiser person. Jenny from the block provides her opinions on relationships as it relates to both her personal life and upcoming role in the movie The Boy Next Door. 

“Women are known to be more emotional and needy or clingy, but that type of obsession is in both men and women,” she explains. “It’s not gender specific. It’s one of those things where your feelings for someone overtake you and you can’t control yourself—in this case, to the highest extreme. But all of us have felt a little bit of that at some point in our life, for sure.”

Lopez also offers thoughts on parenting, her bouts with low self-esteem, reading reviews on her work and more. Check out the full interview with Jennifer Lopez over at Complex and catch her in theaters starting January 23rd.