R&B singer Monica linked with Essence.com for both a photo shoot celebrating four generations of her family and an letter to her mother.

In the picture above you can see Monica along with her 8-month-old daughter Laiyah, her mother Marilyn Best and a picture of her grandmother, Edna Mae Paige who died when the singer was only 18.

During her time with Essence, Monica spoke about the affects of motherhood on her life, impact of her mother and the prayer that she provides to her children. An excerpt from Monica’s letter is available below, to read the entire letter visit Essence.com

I’m a strong believer in divine order. Growing up, my mother used to always tell me how we were God’s special gift to her. I understand what she means now, because as different as all three of my children are, they all play a significant part in who I am. The things I used to do, I have no desire to do anymore. Some of the things I would have chosen, I haven’t chosen anymore. In a way, my children saved my life. They opened doors for me that I never even knew existed. Each day, my main goal is to make sure that they understand that nothing comes before or between them and I.

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